Best Ways of Telling about Your Feelings in a Distance Relationship
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Irina
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Olena
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Kateryna
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Yanochka
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At the moments when you think you have already found your soul-mate, you may feel the need to speak more sincerely with her about your feelings - to find out whether they are reciprocal, to progress through your relationship, and generally to make your cute Russian girl happy. But how can this be done at such a huge distance? Does it feel the same talking about love in the intimate atmosphere of a cozy restaurant and during communication via Skype? We understand that you may be confused - many men and women in distance relationships confess that distance makes strange things to a relationship, especially to its emotional side, so we are offering you some recommendations on addressing this challenge and telling about your feelings to one of the Russian ladies you want to marry without confusion and doubt.
- Accept Online Communication as a Given. Obviously, it is connected with certain limitations in expression of emotions, but technology has gone far ahead and now you can use various communication tools to send smiles, sweet notes, reminders of your care, poems, and lovely jokes to show to your woman. Russian and Ukrainian women love romance as much as all other women do, so in case you should such care and consideration, you may not even need to say those scary "I love you" words to show how much you really do.
- Be Creative about Common Activities. Common tastes, interests, and activities get people much closer to each other and aid in strengthening even a distance relationship. So don't hesitate to share your preferences in books, films, music, etc. - everything that your woman may also have access to. Reading each other's favorite books and watching films may help you get to know each other much better even before you meet, which is a valuable opportunity!
- Give a Memorable, Romantic Gift. It should not necessarily be something expensive, but it should symbolize something for the two of you. Russian women appreciate personals of this kind, so if you are shy to speak about your feelings openly, such a considerate gift will become their obvious illustration.
- Do Not Emphasize Your Loneliness. No matter how hard it is for you to spend a life without your beloved, never overload her with your whining over the distance - it is pathetic! She also misses you, so if you both get preoccupied with speaking only about how you miss each other, your relationship will hardly bring you pleasure. It is likely to become a burden for both, or for one of you - you definitely do not want such an outcome of your romantic acquaintance!
Finally, a piece of wisdom to help you get over the challenges of love at a distance. As Helen Keller wisely noticed, "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." It is vital to feel it deep inside that this relationship is worth waiting for; if you have this feeling in your guts, being unable to see your fiancee right here and right now should not be a problem.
- Accept Online Communication as a Given. Obviously, it is connected with certain limitations in expression of emotions, but technology has gone far ahead and now you can use various communication tools to send smiles, sweet notes, reminders of your care, poems, and lovely jokes to show to your woman. Russian and Ukrainian women love romance as much as all other women do, so in case you should such care and consideration, you may not even need to say those scary "I love you" words to show how much you really do.
- Be Creative about Common Activities. Common tastes, interests, and activities get people much closer to each other and aid in strengthening even a distance relationship. So don't hesitate to share your preferences in books, films, music, etc. - everything that your woman may also have access to. Reading each other's favorite books and watching films may help you get to know each other much better even before you meet, which is a valuable opportunity!
- Give a Memorable, Romantic Gift. It should not necessarily be something expensive, but it should symbolize something for the two of you. Russian women appreciate personals of this kind, so if you are shy to speak about your feelings openly, such a considerate gift will become their obvious illustration.
- Do Not Emphasize Your Loneliness. No matter how hard it is for you to spend a life without your beloved, never overload her with your whining over the distance - it is pathetic! She also misses you, so if you both get preoccupied with speaking only about how you miss each other, your relationship will hardly bring you pleasure. It is likely to become a burden for both, or for one of you - you definitely do not want such an outcome of your romantic acquaintance!
Finally, a piece of wisdom to help you get over the challenges of love at a distance. As Helen Keller wisely noticed, "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." It is vital to feel it deep inside that this relationship is worth waiting for; if you have this feeling in your guts, being unable to see your fiancee right here and right now should not be a problem.